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I have a question...

Why do girls, women, whatever you want to call the female gender, think that by showing their "assets" they will attract the man of their dreams?

I understand that there are some natural bimbos out there....(hopefully you don't consider yourself a bimbo to take offense to that.)  Some females just can't control themselves.  Some are just natural scurves.  I don't get it.  I really don't.  What makes them think that dressing the way they do is going to get them a committment?  I mean, come on now, we all know that they want some kind of committment.  So, how do they find that degrading themselves will accomplish that?

I tend to be more of the type that doesn't feel I have to show everything I own to get the attention of a male.  I have proven that fact.  I feel that if you act a certain way, that is the way you will be treated.  I feel if you act like you are a slut, you are only asking a man to treat you that way.  Maybe I am wrong.  I don't know. 

I just see more and more girls trying to sell themselves by their looks.  But think a minute about that, do you really want a man that is only interested in you for the way you look?  I mean, I know that looks don't last forever, don't you want to be noticed for something else?  Just my opinion, but I know that I would rather have someone after me for me, not for what I have to offer, that other's have to offer as well.


Posted on 01/25/2006 12:17 PM Visits: 27
scottdew: 01/25/2006 12:43 PM
Wow !!! Looks only last so long anyway...
boricuagirl: 01/25/2006 1:41 PM
That was my point exactly. I have a friend that is that way. It really irritates me.
debbiesevents: 01/25/2006 6:35 PM
i was actually talking to the construction worker in our building about this same topic last week. He says that he goes into all these offices to work and that certain girls wear short skirts and are flirty. he says that they know exactly what they are doing and their the types of girls that you hit and quit.
boricuagirl: 01/26/2006 7:03 AM
Exactly, see, they are not valued as a person, they are used and abused and left for the next quick fix. It's really sad.
scottdew: 01/26/2006 7:22 AM
L. some women like to be treated like shit!!!
I went out with a women who could not handle
being treated good!!!
boricuagirl: 01/26/2006 7:48 AM
That is what you had said. And it is those women that make it hard for me and every other decent woman out there to find a good man that is willing to NOT treat her like a damn piece of meat!

That was not a slam on any one person in particular. Just stating my opinion.
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